this was the day my gandma died,it was the most sorrowful day of our perandos lives. in our family we never had a deceased family member since, now. Every nov.1 we would stay at hoem and offer the souls food we have. today was the day that,that routine change and that we have some one to visit at the cementry now.we loved her so much,especially our grandpa.
Jan. 25,2010:
this was the day of our gandma's funeral. it was a week after gandma's death,it was a week after that for we were waiting for our aunt's and uncle's arrival to see gandma. and at that day we all had a reunion except for some of us cousin who were not able to come for some important reason or some kind.and my grandma was to be burried,and all of us,especially auntie babie,(we call her "antay!")who came two days before grandma's funeral from singapore.many appointment was done just for antay to come for grandma.it was a heart breaker moment,i also cried the 1st day of grandma's funeral.i cried alot that It felt like I'm having suffocation.
the that day all of our family came and gave sympathy....
Jan. 29 ,2010:
friday,the day our section had a battle of badmiton.they were planing for the practice on saturday. i was actually planing to come to make it up for them,from the days i have left because of the unfortunate event. that time that they planning for our practice for our Speech choir,I felt for some reason ,a shiver from my body. It was like my mind was saying that"i should go for my classmates." while both my instinct and heart felt like "i was suppose to go to quezon(my grandfa's location) for some reason i don't know."
Jan. 30,2010:
saturday, 4 am,i woke up for some reason.then over heard my mother's conversation about grandfa. mama(my mother's sister)told to mom ,panicly, that my grandfa was having trouble breathing. so my mom hurriedly change while i, i didn't care if my mom would approve me to go with her.so we went to east ave.,quezon city,we arrive there at 5:30am . finding grandfa having trouble from his situation.
11:30am:
we found that grandfa was already dead,.
at 11:45:
us cousin and my sister was at the car of mama,suppose to sleep to pay back from our sleepless nights. but instead we taked about missing our grandfa, and how my cousin was the witnessed of how our grandfa died.he said from his discription that "grandfa took two deep breaths before he died and died with eyes open."it was a very sad story.
Jan. 30,2010:
was grandfa's 2nd funeral and day to be buried. i didn't cried that much as my grandma's death,maybe 'cuz i was ready and accept the reality that they have to go and be together again.
P.S.:
Grandfa,After getting home from grandma's burial he came home and went looking for grandma. we would tell him straight that we just got home from grandma's burial.and would deny everything we say, and would insist that she is here.he would say that "grandma was here and even told us that she was here walking around".
.......Grandad's could never leave long without their wife.........
-my bestfriends statement-
I_V
cecilleperandos
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